There’s this guy from my past, I’ll just call him Mario, and I’ve been thinking back about time we spent together. I just couldn’t figure him out at all. I couldn’t figure out if Mario was interested in me as gf type or if he just wanted to use me, know what I mean? Ok, we met years ago thru a mutual friend, actually he, Mario, came up to us (to me and the mutual friend, he already knew her, the mutual friend) and we, me and Mario, hit it off right away. It was so easy to talk to him, he was funny, cool and cute. Anyway, Mario invited my friend, the mutual friend (I’ll just call her Michelle from now on) and I to visit him sometime at his apt. We started to visit him at his apt. every weekend. We had a great time just talking or watching movies or tv. We could spend hours just talking about nothing or stupid stuff, but then something changed. One day Michelle and I went cruising and there was this guy that caught my eye. He was really good looking and I could tell he liked me too. Michelle already knew this guy and she told me he sort of had a rep as being a player. Well he followed Michelle and I, and pulled us over. We started talking and then after several minutes, he invited me to go cruising with him in his car. I accepted because I wanted to get to know him better and he was also really hot. Well the next night we (Michelle and I) went to our friend Mario’s apt. as we usually do on the weekends, but something was really different about him this time. He was really quiet with me and seemed to be a little mad at me even but I couldn’t figure out why. Well Michelle stepped out of the room for a few minutes, Mario right away started telling me that he’d seen me riding around with a guy the other night. I said nothing and then he said, ‘Well you should only go cruising with me’. Well I thought he was joking becuz he was always kidding around, so I started laughing and then he started laughing too and then changed the subject. He didn’t say anything else about it at all. Things pretty much went on as normal for a couple more weekends at his apt. and then just suddenly outta the blue a friend of his (a guy friend) arrived and invited Michelle to go cruising. She accepted so Mario and I were left alone at his apt. Mario then invited me to go cruising with him in his truck and I accepted. I thought we were just going to go crusing but instead he drove out of town onto a country road. We were parked there and all he did was just have his music on full blast as we sat there for several minutes, it was so loud I couldn’t even talk to him. I was sort of like, what’s going on, but I didn’t say anything. Then after a few minutes, he sort of started to lean in towards me, seemed like he wanted to kiss me but I’m not sure, and I got really uncomfortable so I quickly jumped out of the truck and started goofing around outside. Mario hesitantly got out too and we started acting silly together. We drove back to his apt. and by the time we got there our mutual friend, Michelle was back there waiting for us. Well it was late so Michelle and I said bye to Mario and left. Next weekend when we went to visit Mario again, he blocked the entrance to his apt and wouldn’t let us in. I got upset but didn’t ask for an explanation. I remembered he had a picture of me in there and I told him I would be needing my picture back and he said he’d get it, well as he went to get it I stormed in after him and saw a picture of some girl pinned up on his bedroom wall, it had never been there before and I’d never seen any pictures of any girl at all in his whole apt. He gave me my picture and then proceeded to walk me out of his apt. I got in my car and sped off. I never went back to his apt again. About a month after that incident, we ran into each other at a gas station. I had a bf of about 2 weeks and he asked me, ‘Why are you going out with so and so?’ I was still pissed at him for what he’d done at his apt so I really rudely replied, ‘Because I like him’ and I walked off before he could even reply. Ok, so I’m very confused, I don’t know if this guy really liked me as gf type or if he maybe already had a gf (the girl in the picture he had pinned up on his wall) and he didn’t tell Michelle and I about her because he just wanted to use me. I’m confused and would like to talk to him about all this but it’s been many years and I don’t even know where to begin. I no longer have a boyfriend but am not sure if he has one or not. I haven’t seen him with anyone. I’ll prob get the nerve up to talk to him about it but in the meantime I just want to get some opinions. Do you think this guy was really interested in me as gf or was he just planning on using me?

Originally posted 2009-08-24 09:08:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter